In one week I am due with Baby #3. I have had a few moments of panic thinking for sure she would come before I finished some very important things on my to-do list. I decided to share this with you all because one of those items was to have my maternity portraits taken. I had them done with both of the boys and I would be such a terrible parent if we missed doing them with her right? Well, it got me thinking. The other day a fellow pregnant water aerobics attendee asked “should that be on my to-do list?” and I’m thinking – of course! I do realize though that it is not necessarily the popular line of thinking.
First, I would begin by addressing the why not to’s – what are the big reasons I’ve heard the “no, not me”s:
#1: Not all maternity pics are created equal.
I agree, if you’re judging them by the majority of what is out there, I’d be turned off too.
The reality of pregnancy doesn’t always feel so miraculous. It takes a toll on our bodies and there are definitely effects I don’t want to remember.
Even amongst true Professional Photographers there are a smaller number with expertise and specialization in maternity portraits. The benefits of those that have this expertise are knowledge on proper clothing selection, skilled posing, and lighting techniques that will flatter and highlight the beauty of the pregnant body and minimize or downplay our “battle scars”. Basically, if you’re going for art, select an artist.
#2: Many people, especially women, do not like having their picture taken.
My response for this would cover more than maternity portraits, but first read #1 if you skipped it and then I challenge you to try. Maternity portrait or otherwise, every woman should have the experience of an individual portrait session.
I love photographing a sleeping newborn, capturing a still expression from a wiggly toddler, and freezing family moments in art. However, I cherish the opportunities to reveal to a woman how she is more beautiful and amazing than she ever believed. Just like with my kids, I say “you can’t say you don’t like it unless you try it”.
Why to have maternity portraits taken:
So, I suppose it boils down to the reasons to have maternity portraits are not really that different than the reasons to have any portraits.
- To celebrate a time or milestone in life (this case the most amazing miracle)
- To capture a moment
- To tell our story, the normal person, who may not be recorded in a biography or a documentary
I believe, to celebrate how we value our families and children and their relationships by displaying beautiful artwork in our homes is to share a piece of us – to make a connection. To connect in these days of technology and to really get to know each other is not a small challenge.
This brings me back to the intimacy of pregnancy. Maybe that is another reason for the great hesitation. For many, the experience (however many times you have to drop your pants) is private and special, but please celebrate it. Now, culturally more than ever before, you can be proud of your miraculous year! You are a hero. The soon to be tiny life that grows up so fast, could not become without you. Along with Jackie & Anj, I would love the opportunity to help you celebrate this maternal blessing. Either way, I hope everyone understands a little better why I so passionately say “YES” posing for maternity pictures is a must.
Here are a few of my images from this time around. Now, I’ll let Baby Girl know this note was the last item on my must-do list so she is good to go.
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